
Renee Litsey
1954-01-13 2006-02-01In her senior year of high school she met Larry Litsey, a fellow member of her father's Army Special Forces Group. Larry and Renee married July 22, 1972 and soon after had a house built in Aurora. Larry and Renee began their own company that they had for 25 years. In 1975 Renee' gave birth to their first daughter Chere' and 4 years later gave birth to Laura. Renee was a dedicated mother and wife. She was involved in the women's auxiliary and used her creative talents to make newsletters, plan events, and host dinners. As an Army wife, Renee was not only a secretary for the business; but also, an integral part of the daily operations in times when Larry was away. Though she never gave herself enough credit for her talents, beauty, and heart, those who truly knew her appreciated that she was there for everyone. She was the friend that anyone could come to with any problem, for advice, a shoulder to cry on, or an uplifting laugh. She never judged and treated all with respect.
In 1986 Renee was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor that plagued her with migraine headaches. She also suffered from degenerative disc issues in her spine as well and many other health conditions. In spite of fighting those conditions she maintained a position of helping others as much as possible. This included maintaining her mother's hair weekly for her professional job until her mothers health began to decline, as well as taking care of her grandmother in her later years due to Alzheimers.
Chere' and Laura were blessed to learn many valuable things from their mother. Renee was surrounded by many friends, family, and "spare" family. This included her being a spare mom to many of the girl's friends who loved her and cherished her as "Mom." Renee also had a lifelong friendship with Bruce Myren from the Special Forces Group that she met through her husband and her daughters affectionately called "Uncle Bruce." Renee was known to love deeply and with her whole heart. Her heart grew tremendously with the birth of her first Grandson Christopher in 2002 and her grandson Trevor in 2003.
Renee lost her fight with her medical conditions February 1, 2006 seven years to the day of her mother's passing. She is survived by her loving and devoted husband Larry, her two daughters (Chere' and Laura) and son-in-laws (Steve and Jason) as well as her four grandsons (Christopher, Trevor, Cian and Brodric). Though she is no longer with us physically she is truly here with us in spirit everyday.
When we moved back to the United States from my dad's last tour of duty with NATO, we ended up in southeast Denver, and I started at TJ in the 7th grade. I didn't know anyone and felt really out of place. I'll never forget the first time I saw Renee. It was in the lunchroom and she must have sensed I was scared and really didn't know what to expect. Over she came and told me, "Hi, my name is Renee and we are going to be really good friends". We were for so many years. Through the ups and downs of life, the joys, happiness, pain, from deaths and births, life in general I knew that Renee was right there and would always be there for me as I hope I was for her. We laughed together and we shopped till we dropped, especially for Christmas. She was so giving, and caring. I watched her daughters grow into beautiful women who are strong and assured, watched Renee run the business when Larry was deployed and can't say how many times we just sat, talked about hope our dreams, hopes and wishes. The last time I spoke to her was just a few hours before she passed. She made a point of calling me and telling me that she was so glad I was her sister and that she loved me for being there for her. I told her she was going to bounce back like she did every other time, and that I would see her the next day. But, there was no "next day". She died that night. It has been 16 years and I still miss her every day. I am blessed and honored to have her daughters and their families in my life as the "girls" remind me so much of Renee in their mannerisms, and caring souls. I truly hope that there is a heaven, and that I will one day see my best friend and "sister" Renee again.
tribute by Lydia Moore-Wylie