Birth Date:
1956-01-07
Graduation year:
1974
Deceased Date:
2017-12-10
Obituary:
John “The Stick” H. Arroyo passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on December 10, 2017, in Bryant, Arkansas, at the age of 61.
John was born in McAllen, Texas on January 6, 1956 to Johnny and Henrietta Martinez. Johnny and Henrietta had three children, Josie, John, & Olga. Johnny passed when John was two years old. His mother married Atilano Arroyo, the man John would know as Dad most of his life, in 1962. Atilano and Henrietta had two more children, Sandra and Robert John’s mother passed in 1967 when John was 10 years old. John’s Dad, Atilano, married Olga Garza in 1967 and she became Mom to John and his 4 siblings. Atilano and Olga had two more children, JR and Jaime. John and his biological siblings were adopted by Atilano and Olga Arroyo in 1974. The Arroyo sibling clan of 7 was official; Josie, John, Olga, Sandra, Robert, JR, Jaime.
John went to elementary school at T.A. Brown for 1st through 3rd grades. He then went to Brentwood Elementary for 4th – 6th grades. After that he went to Lamar Jr. High, then to McCallum High School graduating in 1974. He had a passion for football and BASEBALL during his younger years. He played at the North Austin Lions Club and at University Hills Optimist Club. He continued his passion for baseball by playing in several softball leagues during his adult life; hence earning the name – “The Stick” – which he was so proud of.
After high school John continued his education at DeVry University in Dallas. Following graduation from DeVry he began working for DM&H in Irving, Texas in 1976. Also in July of 1976 his best friend and first son, John J. Arroyo, was born. John met Debbie Hairston at DM&H in 1982. They worked together for a year realizing it they were a “good fit” for each other and decided to move in together with J.J. and Brandie (Debbie / now John’s daughter). Life in Irving was good, but John’s heart was always in Austin. He talked Debbie into moving to Austin in 1985. John began working for Austin Business Machines when they moved back. John and Debbie made their union official by marrying in Austin in October 1986. Josh Arroyo was born in July 1987. A few years later John & Debbie made their family complete when Ariane arrived in April 1995.
In the summer of 1995 John & Debbie moved to Arkansas, to be close to Debbie’s family. John began working for Arkansas Copier when they moved and remained there for the past 22 years.
John left Austin being a true, die-hard, I only bleed burnt orange Longhorn fan. He was surrounded by Razorbacks for many years and stood his Longhorn ground; raised his boys to do so also. Slowly but surely those Razorbacks got in his blood and he started cheering them on also. He continued to cheer on his favorite Longhorns with the “Hook ‘Em Horns” but every once in a while you would catch him slip and do that darn “Woooo Pig Soooeee”. His other team was the Cowboys. Nothing would get in between him and his Cowboys football time. His greatest Cowboy memory was being able to go to a game last year with his sons, brother and nephew.
Another one of John’s passions was playing GOLF; to hear John say it . . . . He was the King of the Golf Course! He was a gentleman’s gentleman when it came to etiquette on the course. He enjoyed playing with family, old friends, new friends, anyone; as long as he was playing; ready to play for that “money shot” if anyone was ever interested.
In recent years John has been able to re-connect with his elementary, Jr High, and high school friends though Facebook. This brought him great pleasure to go down memory lane and relive precious days of old.
John leaves behind his greatest legacy, his family. His family was his life in which he revolved around. His wife, Debbie, his children John J. Arroyo, Josh Arroyo and wife Fallon, and Ariane Arroyo; grandchildren Elijah and Lennon. He also leaves behind his siblings; Josie Martinez, Olga Henson and husband Roy, Sandra Escobar, Robert Arroyo and wife Tina, and Atilano Arroyo, Jr. There are also numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins that were blessed to have shared his amazing life.
John was preceded in death by his beloved daughter Brandie. When Brandie passed she took a bit of John with her. We all know that Bran was the first person to greet John when he crossed over. Also preceeding John in death are his biological parents, Johnny Martinez, Henrietta Arroyo; his adopitive parents Atilano Arroyo and Olga Arroyo; and his youngest brother, Jaime Arroyo.
A celebration of life will be held at Dial and Dudley Funeral Home on Friday, December 15, 2017 at 10:00 AM.
A gathering of friends and family will be held at Josh and Fallon’s home afterwards