Tim Cashmn
- August 13th, 2023
My favorite cousin. The last time I saw Mary was at the very cool restaurant she and a partner opened in the Lake Harriet/ Minnehaha Creek area. The menu, décor, color, said artist quarter. The place was a great achievement for Mary.
Our group of friends, the core including Kaposia grads: Mary, Michele Bernier, Matt Patterson, Steve Gagnier, Donna Nelson, and myself, hung out, those post high school years, at the Haberdashery (the Hab) in downtown St Paul. Mary’s place of business. That was just plain fun. Drink beer, crack peanuts, drop the shells on the floor, find out what’s going on, pontificate on the state of things.
Your experience with Mary was intimate. It was her voice, a whisper at any volume, and her ever calm expression. She died without warning. I’m aware that those friends above: Michele, Matt, Steve, hurried to Mary’s side, itself a testament to my favorite cousin.
Michele Joy
- August 10th, 2023
Wait! Those question marks were suppose to be a heart.. no question! I’ll always miss you…
Michele Joy ( Bernier)
- August 10th, 2023
My true blue friend, from grade school through high school and many years beyond.. A generous spirit and gentle soul..I’ll have to be content to see you in my dreams ( I still do)
Miss you always, Mary????
Michele