Birth Date:
1925-03-31
Deceased Date:
2024-08-06
Obituary:
Enrollment: March 31, 1925 Graduation: August 6, 2024
--Enrollment--
Lucille Wilhemenia was born four of five children to Nettie Pease and Charlie Scott Bogar in the town of Whitewright, TX on March 31st, 1925. Her father died before she was two years old and her mother met and married Frank Andrews; they had four more children to round out the family. They worked as tenant farmers and the whole family had to pitch in during harvest season sometimes missing school. They lived in a little three room house, not three bedrooms but three rooms-- a living room, bedroom and a kitchen with an outhouse in the back. She said her family was already poor so they didn’t notice when the Great Depression began in 1929.
--Elementary--
Whitewright had segregated schools and the only black school was from first grade to eighth grade all together in one room. When Lucille finished the eighth, her mother allowed her to move to Sherman with her big sister, Marcie to be able to go to high school. Marcie was a young wife but along with her husband Archie she did her best to care for her younger sister Lucille and cousin Joyce Freeman so they could attend high school. After graduating high school in 1943, Lucille moved with the whole family to Muskogee, OK.
--High School--
In Muskogee, Lucille met her lifetime love, Maurice Lee Love, Sr. They were married in 1944 and started a family right away. By 1948 they had three kids, a son Maurice Jr. and twin girls Madolyn and Sheron. Lucille helped her family with any job possible such as domestic work, hat check girl, or a cab dispatcher. Madolyn would remark that they weren’t poor but were po’!
Maurice Sr. would join the Air Force and serve overseas during the Korean War. Afterward, he and his wife would go to college using money from the GI bill. Both were working fulltime and attending classes parttime while raising their family. In the early sixty’s she finally finished her bachelor’s degree in Early Childhood Education from Northeastern University in Tahlequah, OK and along with her husband, she began teaching in the Muskogee Public School system. Now that they had reached a new status in life, they decided to increase their family. With that, they had two more girls, Angela and Marcie. At the time, her school principal wouldn’t allow pregnant teachers at the school, so Lucille hid her pregnancy with Marcie for six months. She was fired when the principal found out so after she had her baby, she told her husband it was time to move to Tulsa.
--College--
Maurice and Lucille began teaching with Tulsa Public Schools and working on their master’s degrees at Northeastern. This was a time before internet so they had to physically drive to Tahlequah in the evenings after working at school during the day. Lucille received her master’s in Early Childhood Development and Maurice would eventually obtain his PhD in Calculus from Tulsa University and teach at Langston University.
Even though they emphasized education for their family seeing that all five of their children were college graduates, they didn’t forsake their spiritual wellbeing. Church was a must every Sunday. Lucille was baptized at the First Baptist Church in Whitewright. She told how she gave her life to Christ at the age of 15 during a revival. She was a faithful member of a church everywhere she went. She was a member of the Mt. Calvary Baptist Church in Muskogee, a longtime member of the Mt. Carmel Baptist Church after moving to Tulsa then joining the Paradise Baptist Church where she was affectionately known as “Mother Love”. She has served in many different roles such as a Sunday school teacher, Women’s Mission president, soprano choir member, youth Think Tank coordinator, and chaperone for Baptist Convention trips. She also served in her community, volunteering with Meal on Wheels for over 30 years.
In the mid-seventies, her husband got them bowling balls for Christmas and it was on. Lucille would be an advent bowler participating in leagues and traveling to tournaments. She was on a bowling team until the beginning of the pandemic. After she retired, Lucille’s new hobby was playing pokeno. She joined a group of ladies that met every week. We knew where she would be on Fridays. Angela tells of a time she was in labor. Mom came to the hospital and as soon as the baby was born she kissed her, kissed the baby and said, “Well it’s Friday. See you later.”
Summer time was vacation time. She would always plan some type of vacation in the summers, usually to visit family. She loved attending the Bogar Family Reunions. She made a point to go where ever they were held, traveling to Texas, Georgia, California, Minnesota, New Jersey and even last year’s reunion in Florida. She was all about family, often attending sporting events to watch her children and grandchildren. She saw many changes in her lifetime and was proud to be able to vote for Barak Obama as president.
--Graduation--
Lucille had a big heart; she appropriately had the name Love. Her wisdom and caring spirit were evident by everyone she met. She was proceeded in death by her father, mother, husband, brothers Leroy Bogar, Frank Andrews and James Andrews and sisters Marcie Wilson, Marguerite Bogar, Georgia Rhodes, and Henry Mae Griffith.
She leaves to cherish her memory her children Maurice Love, Jr. (Sue) of Millsboro, DE, Madolyn Thompson, Sheron Mims (Michael), Angela Silmon (Keith) and Marcie Love all of Tulsa. One sister, Evelyn Allen is in Okmulgee, OK.
Grandchildren cherishing her memory are Clay Hopkins (Joanna) of Lancaster, TX, LaShawn Underwood (Kalim) of Edmond, OK, Dorian Love (Delcey) of Rockaway Beach, Queens, NY, Anthony Mims (Jami) of Rowlett, TX, Brandon Bates of Los Angeles, CA, Vincent Bates of Tulsa and Aleeah Bates of Tulsa. Great-grandchildren are Jelani Hopkins, Asha Hopkins, Kehinde Hopkins, Taiye Hopkins, Kalim Underwood, Jr., Anthony Mims, Jr., Jordyn Mims, Royalty Bates and Chasity Bates. She also will be missed by a host of cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.